Wednesday, November 28, 2007

I let him become the smelly kid...



When we called this morning to check on Par the nurse asked us if we'd bathe him when we got in because he smelled. On one hand, we were thrilled we'd get to give him his first bath (which turned out to be a glorified sponge bath)but on the other hand, how embarrassing that our baby smelled so bad the nurse had to ask us to clean him.

He didn't love his bath--but he didn't scream bloody murder as we have heard other babies in the NICU. He definitely likes being clean--and just as a reminder--this is the first time EVER that he has been cleaned because they didn't clean him when he was born because he was so fragile--so we were literally cleaning off stuff from his old living quarters (ie-the womb).





As another surprise we found out he was definitely going to try to feed today--but with a BOTTLE! I was shocked. They felt that since his sucking seemed so strong and he was "acting" hungry (rooting and stuff) they thought he might take to a bottle feed. This is just to try--if it doesn't work out--they'll feed him through a tube as planned. So I got to feed him 1cc (which is a tiny amount) in a teeny tiny bottle with a normal size nipple. He was a little confused but seemed to swallow pretty well. We did it again at 8pm and then at 12am--so far so good. They'll feed him again at 4am--and if all goes well he'll get 5cc's at his feeds tomorrow. Apparently, this first feed is really to work on swallowing and to prime his stomach since it has never had any food in it. Tomorrow will be more telling--it will actually be enough to spit up if he is going to have reflux issues. Please pray that this nasty reflux problem has decided to skip us (but we know it is almost a certainty with cdh).



After his feed, they came and took is UA line out--which was quite a process because it has to go really slow--pull a bit out, wait 5 minutes, pull a little more, wait 5 minutes--all this so that it clots because it is going into an artery--that's the danger with these--if it is pulled out too fast there is a potential for bleeding internally. Thankfully our NP took her time--unfortunately I came back from eating to find mom had just about fainted from watching the procedure--so they had mom sitting with her head between her knees.

With his UA line gone and him being clean now--he can wear clothes! So we put on one of his little sacks that it sooooo cozy--he loves it! He's looking more and more like a real baby!



Ella is still taking her time, although it seems that her latest xray showed slight improvement--Praise God! Continue to pray for her lungs to get stronger and stronger.

In closing, we receive all but an eviction notice from the nurse practitioner in the NICU today. She said that the NICU is expecting 2 more critically ill babies in the next day or so (one of them being ANOTHER CDH baby) and there is just no more room. I said something about this in the post yesterday--I didn't know we'd be the people they'd move out! We should be thankful that Par is doing so well that they feel he can take a step down to the NICU II--but I feel it is just a little too soon--the amount of care isn't the same as in the NICU III--plus, we'd really never see Dr. Kays--but, it is the next step to coming home--i just wish it was because Par was ready and not because they need the space--but hopefully by the time he moves (which isn't definite quite yet--but possibly by Friday)--both will be true. I guess it is just bitter sweet.

Thank you for your prayers!
Love, Liz, Rusty & the smelly kid, Par

10 comments:

Anonymous said...

What a wonderful day Par had. Two milestones in one day. First a bath and then to be feed. God is so good!!! I guess Par did not want Big D to show off to much by coming home yesterday. He is doing okay. Have an even greater day today. Love and blessings, Sheila

Anonymous said...

I am so happy to see how far he has come. God is so awesome. I remember when we met in the NICU back in July, we were at the same stage in this "game " as you all are right now. I pray that Par has no major feeding issues and that you can nurse him soon. I know Evan did much better with that than the bottle in the begining. Evan smelled so bad, the nurse had to give him two baths and it still didn't do the trick. "BAD MOMMY!!!!" (LOL). Again I am praising the Lord for all he has done in our lives. My daughter drew a picture for Par; she saw his picture on the computer and has now become very concerned. He has now become a part of her nghtly prayers right along side Ella. I will send the picture to the NICU for you.
In Christ
Tamara Tessmer

Leanne said...

Wow, he is progressing so well! I am so glad to see so many of the tubes and things slowing going away - now I can really see how gorgeous he is!!
The 3 of you, along with Dr K and the staff there, as well as J & E continue to be in our prayers.
Thanks for posting this blog, so we all can share the journey and pray along with you. If I had to rely on Tim to keep me apprised of his progress, I probably would know that Par had been born, but that's about it. ;) Great at appraising - not good with baby details - lol.

Anonymous said...

Thrilled that he is doing so well. Praying that he won't be moved until he is ready. Believing that God will have him ready by Friday if he needs to. On another note I met a mom today that had a CDH baby at Chik Fil A of all places. You know the place where when it gets cold and your children need to play loudly All mommies go!!!:):) Anyway he is four and is as wild and rambunctious as any little boy I have seen. She said he was doing fabulous. I gave her your site and she may attempt to contact you to give you so encouragement. Rusty, She graduated between you and Robbie. Hsve a fabulous day! Sorry for the long comment!:) Still praying and believing in miracles. Allison

Anonymous said...

This is all so incredible...to feel
as though I'm so close to you all and to be aware of Par's progress in such a timely manner. The pics are absolutely beautiful. What a precious Par! Much love!

Anonymous said...

I am very glad that Par got a bath and some "food". You know when you don't feel good how great it is to get a warm bath, some food and put your pj's on. Lovin' it!!! He looks so cute!!!

love - leslee and the basingers

Anonymous said...

Par is probably feeling pretty comfy!! Food in his tummy and soft clothes in one day!!! He looks adoreable and his "mad" face is so cute!! It is amazing how well he is recovering!! Praise be to God!!!!

Zandra

Anonymous said...

Dear Par, You look adorable! I love your cozy sac! You'll have to indulge your mommy now that you can wear clothes! She is going to love dressing you! I'm sorry you didn't like your bath but I know your mommy enjoyed giving you one. Your Aunt Julie is really good at styling baby hair. You can ask Elizabeth's other cousin Sarah about that. She wouldn't be where she was today without Aunt Julie! I am so proud of you for taking a bottle! Keep up the good work and give your mommy, daddy and Boo a big smile for me! Love, Bess

Anonymous said...

hello liz,rusty,and par. You look so cute in your clothes and you look so sweet and adorable and it makes me wish i knew you and could hug you, you have came such a long way kido and i am so proud of you,so great on being able to be bottle fed, that is awesome,maybe next your mommy will get to nurse you, im sure you will like that a lot better.Great going though and i am so happy for you all, and although i dont know you, I love you all very much and i told my sister today that i always have to wake up and check on my baby.

Cindy said...

I'm glad Par isn't stinky anymore, and that he did well with his first attempt at eating. I pray that he does good tomorrow when they increase the amount and that he doesn't have bad reflux.

I don't know how the step-down NICU is at SHANDS, but I imagine it is very similar to the one at Children's in Bham. For what it's worth, we loved the step-down NICU. There was a lot more room and it was quieter and not as bright. The nurses that we had in the level III NICU also took turns working in the step-down one, so we knew all of them and they knew Claire. Each nurse was only assigned two patients, so I felt like Claire was still getting very good care there.