Sunday, October 7, 2007

“My home’s in Alabama, no matter where I lay my head”

My last day in Birmingham—so bitter sweet. Tomorrow morning my mom and I head to Gainesville, Florida where I will reside for an undetermined amount of time. On one hand, it is comforting to know I will be only a mile away from the hospital where I will deliver little Philip Andrew—our entire purpose for making this journey. But on the other hand—we don’t know what lies ahead in terms of outcome, time away from our friends and family, and of course, parenthood. Rusty will join me later—closer to delivery day (tentatively Nov. 6)—until then, my mom will be lounging with me on our “vacation”—which will consist of weekly doctors visits, bobbing in the hotel pool, manicures, pedicures and LOTS of Grey’s Anatomy. It will be worse than waiting for Christmas I’m sure—our 2nd wedding anniversary will be spent apart, I will miss Rusty’s birthday—and I’ll be waiting for the greatest gift ever—the birth of our little boy! For those of you who know me—patience is not one of my strong suits—so any sort of “waiting” is absolutely torture!!!! But I know that God is giving us this time to be fully prepared for Philip Andrew’s birth so I will try and not let the “waiting” get to me.





I’ve been mentally preparing for this part of the journey for months now-- so it is bearable—especially after all the wonderful gifts that have come our way in the past few days. We’ve (Rusty and I) been able to have special dinners with our family and friends, we’ve had perfect evenings in our back yard with just the two of us, we’ve had good reflections—and then we’ve had some miracles. About 9 days ago I had a friend call me to tell me that she would be saying a novena to St. Teresa of the Little Flower and that she had Rusty and I on her prayer list for the novena. I thought it was so sweet and thoughtful. A few days later, Rusty was out in the backyard pruning our pink rose bush and it reminded me about the novena and I told him then. I told him that St. Teresa usually sends a sign of her dedication of intercessory in the form of roses—although our roses were pink and there to begin with, I suggested that the fullness and fragrance of them could be her “sign”—and left it at that. Well, today my aunt came over to say goodbye and we went out into the back yard so she could identify some plants for us and I look over to the pink rose bush and standing with the pink roses was one strong lone red rose in full bloom. I looked at Rusty and he smiled knowing what I was thinking. I called my friend and asked her about the novena and she said it had just ended but that she had remembered us in her prayers—I then told her about our gift of a red rose. She agreed that St. Teresa had indeed sent that gift to Rusty and me—such perfect timing.


At our last ultrasound and doctor’s appointment on Wednesday, the ultrasound technician was sweet enough to do some special pictures of Philip Andrew. We hope you will enjoy them—his little smirk came just at the time when I said “Smile for mama!”—the ultrasound technician even seemed surprised when he did in fact “smile”!








I will be updating the blog more as I settle into Gainesville—so please keep checking. Thank you for your thoughts and prayers—we give all the glory to God for this baby and for all the support from our friends and family—we know that it is only through His love that we are able to endure His wonderful plan for our life.
Much Love, Liz & Rusty

3 comments:

Josh said...

Welcome to Gainesville Mom and Grandma (and soon to be Dad)! I can’t even begin to tell you how excited I am for you and your family. Your discernment to come to Shands to deliver your baby is an excellent one! The road ahead is going to be bumpy, with great highs and lows, but you have chosen the best possible doctor for your baby.

I know this because my wife and I were faced with same decision months ago. At our baby’s 20 week ultrasound we found out something was wrong. Our baby was diagnosed with a left CDH with an LHR of 0.8.

We’re from Colorado, and the doctors there did not give us much hope. After doing our homework and searching on the Internet we found Dr. Kays. After meeting with him in person, we knew we’d be delivering our baby in Gainesville.

Our baby girl was born on July 24th. Her name is Ella Renae West. God has blessed us so much through this journey, and has drawn us so close to Him during these tough times.

As of today, our baby girl is still in the NICU III at Shands, but she is making forward progress. If you’d like to read about our story you can check out the details here:

http://ellawest.com

Our blog has been a huge source of comfort and strength for us during this journey. The prayers and love from so many have truly carried us through. It’s so great that you’ve chosen to share your story as well with friends and family!

We pray the Lord’s peace and grace be with you during this time, and may you trust in Him for all your needs.

God Bless you Liz, Rusty, and baby Philip Andrew.

In Christ’s Love,

--
Josh West (jooosh AT gmail.com)

Vicki Jensen said...

Liz,
Best of luck on this new part of your journey. You seem to have a wonderful attitude filled with hope. You should try to relax and pamper yourself with those mani's & pedi's as much as possible. The pool will also be comforting. I did that a lot at the end of my pregnancy to get relief from the baby's weight.

You will be in my thoughts and prayers as Philip's due date approaches. You are in good hands and have given him every chance possilbe. You should be proud of that. I will pray for a strong baby with good lungs!
Love,
Vicki
Jack's mom, 8-20-07, severe LCDH

Anonymous said...

Good luck in Gainsville Liz!
We miss you already!
Last weekend was very special.
We wish yall the best on your "vacation".
Your in our prayers.

love you always.